Alone time, of course, is
different than loneliness, which carries
some health risks, including increased risk of heart disease and
depression. But carving out some "me time," on the other hand, is a
pretty awesome idea. Here's
why:
You'll have
just as much fun
Think you'll have a terrible
time at the movies alone? That's probably not the case. In fact, you'll have an
equally good time partaking in fun activities on your own as you would if you
were doing them with other people, according to a study conducted by business
professors Rebecca Ratner of the University of Maryland and Rebecca Hamilton of
Georgetown University. The not-so-fun part comes in when you're thinking about
how others are perceiving your aloneness and worrying that they simply think
you have no one to hang out with.
Being alone
will make you more creative ...
If you're a fan of brainstorming with others, you might want to
rethink that. When coming up with ideas and strategies, research shows that people come up with their best material on their own.
“Decades
of research have consistently shown that brainstorming groups think of far
fewer ideas than the same number of people who work alone and later pool their
ideas," Keith Sawyer, a psychologist at Washington University in St. Louis
said, according to The Washington Post.
And probably
make you work harder.
Remember group projects in
school? There was always someone who wasn't pulling their weight, and that's
because of the concept of "social loafing" or the assumption that less effort has to
be exerted because more than one person is involved. Taking on a task alone is
probably the best way to get it done quickly and efficiently.
If you're an
introvert, alone time is key to your happiness.
It's no secret that introverts interact differently with the
world -- and one of the most important things to introverts is their solo time.
"Think of each of us as having a cup of energy
available," HuffPost blogger Kate Bartolotta explained. "For
introverts, most social interactions take a little out of that cup instead of
filling it the way it does for extroverts. Most of us like it. We're happy to
give, and love to see you. When the cup is empty though, we need some time to
refuel.”
Taking on
activities on your own can help you meet new people.
If you've
been feeling a little lonely lately, try taking on one of your favorite
activities on your own. Not only will you have fun, but you might meet someone
who shares your interests.
While
traveling alone, for example, Ratner said she made social connections easily.
“I found myself talking to people more alone than I normally would traveling
with other people, when you’re more insulated,” she said, according to Science
Of Us.
Spending time
alone can help with depression, especially in teens
A 1997 study found that alone
time was key for teens. “Adolescents … who spent an intermediate amount of
their time alone were
better adjusted than those who spent little or a great deal of time alone,”
explained the study, authored by emotional development expert Reed W.
Larson.
It helps clear
your mind.
Our brains need to rest and recharge in order
to function as well as we want them to. So even if you're not an introvert,
alone time is still important for processing and reflecting.
"Constantly being 'on' doesn't give your brain a chance to
rest and replenish itself,"Sherrie Bourg Carter,
Psy.D. wrote in Psychology Today. "Being by yourself with no
distractions gives you the chance to clear your mind, focus, and think more
clearly. It's an opportunity to revitalize your mind and body at the same
time."
You get to do
what you actually want to do.
If your friend or partner
wants to spend the day watching football and you'd rather spend it on a hike,
choosing the solo path will probably end up being a lot more fun for you.
Similarly, if you decide to take an entire day for yourself, you get to spend that
day doing exactly what you want to do. Doesn't sound too shabby, does it?
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