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6 Honest Dating Tips for Strongly Independent People

Many people have been single for so long, they have a vague idea about what it's like to share or adjust in a relationship.
As much as you want to be independent, you really don't want to remain single all your life. So it's high time you let go of some behaviours which may sabotage your relationship if you are ready to have one.These may be easy to let go but with time you have to learn to do without them.
Here are 6 relationship tips for super independent people:

Time alone:
Independent people don’t mind spending time alone, but this can create issues during the beginning stages of the relationship as it could feel that you’re pulling away. Be intentional about spending time with each other as opposed to spending too much time alone.

Be honest: Be honest with your mate that you’ve been independent so long, you need to adjust now that you’re no longer single.

Communication: Communication can be an issue with super independent people as they are so used to doing things when they want them. Make an effort to communicate on where you coming from or why you don’t check in all the time.

Balance: Finding balance will help as well. Understanding that we all have our own identities and friends is important, but let’s not forget to let your loved one in your world

Being needed: Make the other person feel needed, everyone needs to feel wanted. Make efforts to let them know you love and need them in your life.

Team only: Look at the relationship as a team only game. This can also be done by changing attitudes that you need don’t need anyone. If being over independent has hurt relationships before, it would be wise to seek council to correct this.

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